Welcome to the Sentence Glue! In this chapter, we will learn how to connect simple thoughts into smooth, fluent sentences using Qui (Who/Which), Que (That/Which), and Où (Where/When). Let's master it together, step-by-step.
So far, you might have been speaking in short, choppy sentences:
• "This is the boy. The boy wears glasses."
To sound natural and fluent, we connect these thoughts using **Relative Pronouns** (e.g., "This is the boy **who** wears glasses."). Think of relative pronouns simply as **Sentence Glue**.
Relative pronouns act like liquid glue. They sit in the middle of two separate clauses, bonding them together so you don't have to repeat the same word twice.
In French, our three primary tubes of glue are:
Look away from the screen. Why do we use relative pronouns in conversation? What are the three core French relative pronouns?
1. Relative pronouns are grammatically designed to act as what?
2. Which pronoun replaces a place or a time period?
3. How do you say "Who" or "Which" (acting as subject) in French?
Question 1: Correct Answer: B. Relative pronouns connect two thoughts into one fluent sentence.
Question 2: Correct Answer: B. *Où* replaces place ("where") or time ("when").
Question 3: Correct Answer: A. *Qui* represents who/which when acting as the subject of the following verb.
Use Qui [kee] when the word you are replacing is the **subject** (the person or thing performing the action).
In practice, this means Qui is always followed directly by a conjugated verb engine.
Think: **Qui** sounds like **"Key"**.
→ A **Key** is used to start a **verb motor**.
→ If you look immediately after the blank and see a **verb** (an action engine), turn the **Qui (Key)**!
To know if you should use **Qui**, look at the word **immediately following the blank**:
[Noun] + qui + [Verb Engine]
• Example: La femme [blank] habite ici → habite (lives) is a verb engine, so it must be qui.
• Example: Le chat [blank] dort sur le lit → dort (sleeps) is a verb engine, so it must be qui.
Let's review two examples in action:
Look away from the screen. What part of speech must always follow "Qui" in a sentence? Recite the "Key" mnemonic.
1. In "C'est le garçon ____ parle," what follows the blank?
2. Based on the answer above, which pronoun is correct?
3. Translate: "The dog that runs." (runs is court)
Question 1: Correct Answer: B. *parle* is a conjugated verb engine.
Question 2: Correct Answer: B. Because a verb directly follows the blank, we turn the **Qui (Key)** to start it.
Question 3: Correct Answer: A. *court* (runs) is a verb engine, so we use *qui*. Thus: *Le chien qui court*.
Use Que [kuh] when the word you are replacing is the **direct object** (the person or thing receiving the action).
In practice, this means Que is always followed directly by a subject pronoun or noun (e.g., je, tu, il, nous, Marie, le chat).
Think: **Que** is pronounced **"Kuh"** (like the first sound of **cu**t).
→ Imagine a subject noun/pronoun waiting to **c**ut (**k**uh) in line!
→ If you look immediately after the blank and see a subject noun/pronoun (e.g. *Je, Tu, Elle*), drop the **Que (Kuh)** in front of them to connect the sentence!
To know if you should use **Que**, look at the word **immediately following the blank**:
[Noun] + que / qu' + [Subject Noun/Pronoun] + [Verb Engine]
• Example: La chanson [blank] nous écoutons → nous is a subject pronoun, so it must be que.
• Example: La voiture [blank] Marie achète → Marie is a subject noun, so it must be que.
When **que** meets a word starting with a vowel (or silent h), they collide! We drop the 'e' and combine them:
→ **que + il** becomes **qu'il** [keel] .
→ **que + elle** becomes **qu'elle** [kehl] .
Note: **Qui** never contracts! It remains **qui** even before vowels (e.g. *qui habite*). Only **que** contracts.
Let's review two examples in action:
Look away from the screen. What part of speech must always follow "Que"? Does "Qui" ever contract into "qu'"?
1. In "Le café ____ je bois...", what follows the blank?
2. Based on the answer above, which pronoun is correct?
3. What is the correct contracted form of "que Marie aime"?
Question 1: Correct Answer: B. *je* is a subject pronoun.
Question 2: Correct Answer: B. Because a subject follows the blank, we use the **Que (Kuh)** pronoun.
Question 3: Correct Answer: B. *Marie* starts with a consonant (M), so no elision happens. It remains *que Marie aime*.
Still confused? Here is the absolute foolproof test. Look at the word directly after the blank:
Examples of following words:
• est (is)
• parle (speaks)
• arrive (arrives)
• court (runs)
Example: Le train qui arrive.
Examples of following words:
• je / j' (I)
• tu (you)
• il / elle (he/she)
• Marie / le garçon (names/nouns)
Example: Le train que je prends.
Use Où [oo] to replace a **place** ("where") or a **time period** ("when").
Think: The word **Où** (where) has an accent grave (`) over the 'u'.
→ The accent grave looks like a **GPS Location Pin** pointing to a place.
→ It also looks like the **hand of a clock** pointing to a time.
→ Use **Où** when connecting places (cities, parks, houses) or times (days, years, moments).
Let's review two examples in action:
Look away. What double meaning does "Où" have in relative clauses? Recite the GPS Pin and Clock mnemonics.
1. In "C'est la maison ____ je suis né," what does "maison" represent?
2. Based on the answer above, which pronoun is correct?
3. Translate: "The year when I traveled." (year is l'année, traveled is j'ai voyagé)
Question 1: Correct Answer: B. *maison* is a house, which is a location place.
Question 2: Correct Answer: A. Because it's a place, we drop the **Où (GPS Pin)** inside the slot. Thus: *la maison où je suis né*.
Question 3: Correct Answer: A. *l'année* is a time period, so we use *où* to mean "when". Thus: *L'année où j'ai voyagé*.
Use dont [dohn] when the relative clause contains a verb or expression that requires the preposition de.
Think: The pronoun dont starts with the letter D.
→ It stands for De.
→ When a verb naturally takes de (like parler de or avoir besoin de), the de gets sucked into the letter D in dont and disappears from the sentence!
Let's look at how this works step-by-step:
Dont for Possession (Whose):
You also use dont to show ownership or association (translating to "whose" or "of which"):
• L'homme dont le fils est médecin... — The man whose son is a doctor.
Look away. What letter does "dont" start with? What preposition does it replace? Name three French expressions that trigger "dont".
1. Which relative pronoun must be used to connect: "L'ami" and "je parle de lui"?
2. Translate: "The car that I need." (car is la voiture, need is avoir besoin de)
3. True or False: In "C'est l'homme dont je me souviens," the preposition "de" is still written in the relative clause.
Question 1: Correct Answer: B. Because "parler" takes the preposition "de" (*parler de*), we must use *dont*.
Question 2: Correct Answer: A. "Avoir besoin" requires "de", which is replaced by *dont*. Never say "que j'ai besoin".
Question 3: Correct Answer: B. False. The preposition "de" disappears completely once *dont* is used.
Choosing the correct relative pronoun is one of the most common challenges for French learners. Because English often translates different pronouns simply as "that", you cannot rely on direct translation. Instead, follow this simple decision flow.
When filling in a blank space, ask yourself these questions in order:
| Pronoun | Grammatical Function | Operational Test (After the blank) | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
| qui | Replaces Subject (who / which) | Followed immediately by a **Verb** | L'homme qui parle... (The man who is speaking...) |
| que / qu' | Replaces Direct Object (whom / that) | Followed immediately by a **Subject** (pronoun/noun) | Le livre que je lis... (The book that I am reading...) |
| où | Replaces Place or Time (where / when) | Noun is a **Location** or a **Time Period** | La ville où j'habite... (The city where I live...) |
| dont | Replaces **de** + Noun (whose / of which / about which) | Verb takes **de** (or shows possession) | Le livre dont j'ai besoin... (The book that I need...) |
Look away. What is the operational test to distinguish between "qui" and "que"? What is the first check you should always make before anything else?
1. In "Le garçon ____ tu parles est sympa," which relative pronoun is correct?
2. In "L'étudiant ____ étudie le français," which relative pronoun is correct?
3. In "L'année ____ je suis né," which relative pronoun is correct?
Question 1: Correct Answer: B. Although it is followed by the subject "tu", the verb is "parler", which requires the preposition "de" (*parler de*). According to **Step 1**, *dont* overrides *que*. Thus: *Le garçon dont tu parles*.
Question 2: Correct Answer: A. The word following the blank is the verb *étudie* (verb engine), which triggers *qui* according to **Step 3**.
Question 3: Correct Answer: B. *L'année* is a time period, so we use *où* to mean "when" according to **Step 2**.
Sometimes, you want to link clauses without pointing to a specific noun. In English, we do this by using the word "what" (in the sense of "that which" or "the thing that").
Example: "I don't know what is happening." or "This is what I want."
In French, we create these by placing the placeholder word ce [suh] (meaning "this" or "that") in front of the relative pronoun.
Think of Ce as a blank card representing "the thing".
→ Ce + Qui = "The thing that (subject)" → what
→ Ce + Que = "The thing that (object)" → what
→ Ce + Dont = "The thing about/of which" → what
A Note on Places (Ce où / Là où):
To say "what place" or "where" when there is no specific antecedent noun, French naturally uses là où [lah oo] (literally "there where").
• C'est là où je travaille. — That is where (what place) I work.
Look away. How do you say "what" in French when it means "the thing that"? When do you use "ce qui" versus "ce que"? What does "ce dont" replace?
1. In "Je ne comprends pas ____ se passe," what relative pronoun fits? (se passe is a verb engine)
2. Translate: "This is what I bought." (bought is j'ai acheté)
3. In "Voilà ____ j'ai peur," which fits? (avoir peur de is the verb phrase)
Question 1: Correct Answer: B. The blank is followed by the verb phrase *se passe*, so we need the subject pronoun *ce qui*.
Question 2: Correct Answer: A. The blank is followed by the subject pronoun *je*, which makes it a direct object slot requiring *ce que*.
Question 3: Correct Answer: A. *Avoir peur de* requires the preposition *de*, which is replaced by *dont*, giving *ce dont*.
When connecting clauses after a preposition (like sur, avec, pour, dans, chez), you cannot use simple relative pronouns. If the antecedent is a thing or animal, you must use lequel (which changes form to agree with the noun's gender and number).
Think: Lequel is a mirror that must reflect the exact shape of the noun.
→ Singular Masculine: lequel [luh-kehl]
→ Singular Feminine: laquelle [lah-kehl]
→ Plural Masculine: lesquels [lay-kehl]
→ Plural Feminine: lesquelles [lay-kehl]
Just like the articles le and les, the relative pronoun lequel contracts when combined with the prepositions à or de:
| Base | Contraction with À (to / at) | Contraction with DE (of / from) |
|---|---|---|
| Masc. Sing. (lequel) | auquel [oh-kehl] | duquel [dew-kehl] |
| Fem. Sing. (laquelle) | à laquelle | de laquelle |
| Masc. Plur. (lesquels) | auxquels [oh-kehl] | desquels [day-kehl] |
| Fem. Plur. (lesquelles) | auxquelles [oh-kehl] | desquelles [day-kehl] |
• Le problème auquel je pense... — The problem about which (to which) I think...
• La voiture à côté de laquelle je suis garé... — The car next to which I am parked...
Note on People: If the antecedent is a person, you can use preposition + qui instead. This is much more common and simpler!
• L'ami avec qui je voyage... (equivalent to: L'ami avec lequel...)
Look away. What are the four base forms of lequel? What do they contract to when combined with "à"? What do they contract to when combined with "de"?
1. In "La chaise sur ____ je suis assis," which pronoun is correct? (chaise is feminine singular)
2. In "Le stylo avec ____ j'écris," which pronoun is correct? (stylo is masculine singular)
3. What does "à + lesquels" contract to?
Question 1: Correct Answer: B. *chaise* is feminine singular, so we match it with *laquelle*.
Question 2: Correct Answer: A. *stylo* is masculine singular, so we match it with *lequel*.
Question 3: Correct Answer: A. "à + lesquels" contracts to *auxquels* (masculine plural contractive pronoun).
Let's see all three relative pronouns in action. Emma is describing a friend to Leo:
C'est un garçon qui porte des lunettes.
Phonetics: [say tuhn gar-sohn kee port day lew-net.]
(It's a boy who wears glasses.)C'est Paul ? Le garçon que je connais ?
Phonetics: [say pol ? luh gar-sohn kuh zhuh koh-neh ?]
(Is it Paul? The boy that I know?)Non. C'est le garçon avec qui tu as joué au tennis au parc où on va souvent.
Phonetics: [nohn. say luh gar-sohn ah-vehk kee too ah zhoo-ay oh teh-nees oh park oo ohn vah soo-vahn.]
(No. It's the boy with whom you played tennis at the park where we go often.)Look away. In the dialogue, why did Claire use "qui" for glasses (porte des lunettes) and "que" for knowing (je connais)?
1. In the dialogue, why is "où" used in the phrase "...au parc où on va"?
2. Translate: "The boy whom I know." (know is connais)
3. What is the meaning of "lunettes"?
Question 1: Correct Answer: B. *parc* is a park (a location place), which triggers the GPS-pin pronoun *où*.
Question 2: Correct Answer: A. *je* is a subject in the queue, so we use *que*.
Question 3: Correct Answer: A. *lunettes* is glasses (think of looking at the *lunar* moon with glasses).
In English, we frequently drop relative pronouns in casual speech (e.g., "The book [that] I read is good" or "The boy [whom] I met is kind").
In French, **you can never skip the glue!** Dropping the pronoun is a major grammatical error. You must always explicitly state the connection: Le livre **que** je lis...
Combine the two thoughts using the correct relative pronoun ("Sentence Glue").
Study these new words and their pronunciations before practicing with flashcards. Click the speaker icon to hear the audio:
| English Word / Phrase | French Translation | Listen |
|---|---|---|
| The house where I live | La maison où j'habite | |
| The computer that works well | L'ordinateur qui fonctionne bien | |
| The friend whom I invite (m) | L'ami que j'invite | |
| The dog that is eating | Le chien qui mange | |
| The pizza that we are buying | La pizza que nous achetons | |
| The city where they go | La ville où ils vont | |
| The letters that she wrote | Les lettres qu'elle a écrites | |
| The book that I need | Le livre dont j'ai besoin | |
| The friend of whom he speaks | L'ami dont il parle |
Import the relative pronouns deck to practice QUI, QUE, and OÙ combinations on your device.
Prove your complete self-contained mastery of Relative Pronouns. Complete all three tiers to verify your understanding!
1. Which relative pronoun is used to replace the **subject** (the person or thing *doing* the action)?
2. Which relative pronoun is used to replace the **direct object** (the person or thing *receiving* the action)?
3. What is the rule for choosing "qui" over "que" based on what follows the blank?
4. When does the relative pronoun "que" contract into "qu'"?
5. Which relative pronoun is used to replace a noun introduced by the preposition de (meaning whose, of which, or about which)?
Choose the correct word from the dropdown menu to complete each sentence.
Write the complete French sentence. Capitalize the first letter.
1. Translate: "The man who is speaking is tall." (the man is L'homme, speak is parler -> parle, tall is grand)
Hint: "L'homme..." + relative pronoun + verb engine "parle" + "est grand".2. Translate: "The book that I am reading is good." (the book is Le livre, read is lire -> lis, good is bon)
Hint: "Le livre..." + relative pronoun + subject "je" + verb "lis" + "est bon".3. Translate: "The apple that he eats is red." (the apple is La pomme, eat is manger -> mange, red is rouge)
Hint: "La pomme..." + relative pronoun contracted + "il mange" + "est rouge".4. Translate: "The city where I live is Paris." (the city is La ville, live is habiter -> j'habite)
Hint: "La ville..." + relative pronoun + location "j'habite" + "est Paris".5. Translate: "The friend about whom I speak is Paul." (the friend is L'ami, speak is parler -> je parle)
Hint: "L'ami..." + relative pronoun + subject/verb "je parle" + "est Paul".